Talking Things Out

Uttering “I don’t like who you mixing with or Hey, you’re friends with her? Gosh, I hate her” can sometimes show that we as an individual is lacking of maturity, thinking and manners.

These types of naysayers had nothing better to do than to just check on you, backbite about your friends and belittle with the companions you’re with just because of differences in opinions. Yes. I know that everybody is entitled to each of their precious statements, hypothesis and judgements, but do you must know that if once you blurted out an atrocious sentence, people will remember that for life? It pains me to see people telling me that my friends are harsh, whatever and whatsoever. I respect your comments in evaluating that individual but don’t you think you should tell that person straight to their face and not through me? It creates less of a sin and ill-talking you know?

Conduct a secret meeting, inbox or even message the person personally to indicate to them if they are being annoying or filth to you. It will be of no use and amalgamation won’t work either if you keep telling the third party of this disagreement don’t you think so? Your heart will finally be composed once you let go of all the frustrations that twinge you. So please. 

  

Likewise in terms of eating, if one doesn’t like the food served or whether the food has tasted so awful, one wouldn’t scream her lungs out to the cook and say that she despises their cooking right? What more if the cook is your own mother, your aunty or your friend. Their hearts will shattered into pieces if they were to find out that their food which they had prepared for hours, marinated the chicken for one night had just received  snide remarks from someone who doesn’t have basic manners. 

The prophet once said, if you do not like the food given to you, just be calm, smile and at least show some gratitude in thanking the cooker whom had just prepared it for you. Same goes if you don’t like a person. Keep it to yourself, don’t broadcast to people of your hatred towards that person and if you have some balls, talk things out. The person you hate wouldn’t know what wrong they do to you unless you list/make PowerPoint slides to indicate the horrible characteristics of him. That to say, I’m suppose you’re an Angel.